What do you wish Therapists understood about Religious Trauma?

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10 Things I Wish My Therapist Understood about my Deconversion:

  1. Losing my faith was not a choice, and it’s not something I can choose to undo.

  2. I want them to address my grief and loss as well as the grief and loss of my family who still believe.

  3. It’s hard to trust myself because I grew up believing my heart was deceitful and desperately wicked.

  4. We need mental health clinicians who are truly able to leave their personal convictions at the door & listen.

  5. Help me connect with secular groups, especially post-theist groups who understand my experience.

  6. Recognize the religious trauma I experienced and how it impacts me today.

  7. Ask me about my relationships and be aware of cycles of religious-based guilt, shame, and abuse.

  8. The most difficult thing for me now is dealing with the regret of having wasted so much of my life on something I no longer believe.

  9. When I call and ask for a secular therapist, don’t tell me you can work with anyone regardless of their beliefs, ask me why this is important to me and offer to help me find a secular therapist.

  10. I really don't feel that different, and yet, being in this new place (which I didn't choose) can have big ripples in my life.

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